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Galentine’s Day is all about celebrating the special women in your life—and what better way to show your bridesmaids how much you appreciate them than with a little last-minute love? Whether you’re in the thick of wedding planning or just looking for an excuse to hang out with your girls, these easy and thoughtful ideas will have your bridal squad feeling extra special.
Here’s how you can pull off each one:
Write Heartfelt Handwritten Notes
Sometimes, the simplest gestures are the most meaningful. A handwritten note can express what words on a screen can’t—sincere gratitude. If you have a few minutes, grab some stationery (or even a cute card from your local shop) and jot down a quick note to each of your bridesmaids. You don’t have to be Shakespeare to make it meaningful! Share a personal memory, highlight what makes them so special to you, or just let them know how much you’re thankful for their support.
How to do it:
- Pick out a card that feels personal or matches the vibe of your wedding (think: pastel florals, gold foil, etc.).
- Write a few sentences that express gratitude—keeping it real and from the heart is always best.
- If you’re in a rush, a simple, heartfelt “Thank you for being by my side during this journey” will do wonders!
Host a Virtual Toast & Catch-Up
Can’t get your girls together in person? No problem! A quick virtual toast is an easy way to connect and share some love, no matter where everyone is. Schedule a 15-minute video call to chat, catch up, and raise a glass to the friendship and support they’ve shown you during wedding planning. This is an ideal way to squeeze in some quality time with your bridesmaids without leaving your couch!
How to do it:
- Send a text or email to your bridesmaids asking them to join a quick Zoom or FaceTime call.
- Grab your favorite drink (champagne, wine, or even a cute mocktail!), and toast to all the fun wedding memories ahead.
- During the call, share a little toast or story for each bridesmaid, reminding them how grateful you are for them. It’ll make the moment even more special.
Send Coffee (or Treats) on You
When in doubt, send a treat! You can quickly brighten your bridesmaids’ day by sending them a little pick-me-up via digital gift cards for their favorite coffee shop, bakery, or ice cream spot. It’s an easy and thoughtful gesture that feels personal without taking up too much time. Plus, who doesn’t love a good latte or pastry surprise?
How to do it:
- Use a service like Starbucks, Dunkin’, or a local favorite to send a digital gift card.
- Drop a quick text or DM letting them know you’ve sent them a little treat to enjoy. You could say something like: “Enjoy a sweet treat on me today! You deserve it!”
- If your bridesmaids are nearby, consider delivering a little care package with snacks or drinks you know they’ll love.
Plan a Last-Minute Girls’ Night Out (or In!)
Nothing says “I appreciate you” like quality time with your best gals. Whether you’re celebrating at home or going out, a last-minute girls’ night is a perfect way to let loose and bond. If you can, grab a drink or treat somewhere fun, or invite everyone over for an impromptu movie night, pizza party, or craft session. The key is the connection, not the extravagance.
How to do it:
- Send a quick message inviting your bridesmaids to a casual hangout—this could be an after-work drink at a nearby bar, a movie marathon, or a cozy night at home.
- Don’t overthink the details. You can easily organize a group chat where everyone pitches in what they’d like to do (or even just suggest one thing, like grabbing tacos at your favorite spot!).
- If everyone’s free last-minute, a quick stop at a fun, local bar or café is always a good idea. Or, for something more laid-back, set up a cozy DIY movie night at your place with wine, popcorn, and a blanket fort!
Give Them a Social Media Shoutout
If you’re tight on time or can’t meet up with everyone, a heartfelt shoutout on social media can go a long way. Post a photo or a story tagging your bridesmaids, sharing what they mean to you, and expressing how grateful you are to have them as part of your big day. This is an easy and quick way to make them feel celebrated and appreciated in front of all your friends and followers.
How to do it:
- Find a cute photo of you and each bridesmaid (or use a fun throwback from a wedding planning moment).
- Write a short, meaningful caption about how much their friendship and support mean to you. Example: “Couldn’t do this without these incredible women by my side! Forever grateful for you all. 💖 #Bridesmaids #Galentines”
- Tag each bridesmaid so they get notified and feel extra loved. If you’re in a rush, a quick Instagram story with a photo and a short message works just as well!
Even if you’re in a time crunch, showing your bridesmaids how much you appreciate them doesn’t have to be complicated or take hours of planning. Whether you choose to write a quick note, plan an impromptu girls’ night, or give them a shoutout online, the most important thing is that you take the time to show them how much they mean to you. After all, your bridal squad deserves to feel loved and celebrated, and Galentine’s Day is the perfect time to do just that!
Have you already done something for your bridesmaids this Galentine’s? Let us know how you celebrated them in the comments below!